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Surviving Your First Year with Twins
12 tips — one for each month!
“Two Heads Are Better Than One!” typed the enthusiastic ultrasound tech on the screen. Staring in disbelief and delight, my husband and I were unprepared for how those two heads would change us, especially that first year. We survived those 12 months — as proof, our twins are 17 years-old now — and you can too, with these 12 tips, one for each month.
Register realistically, and take a P.O.T.
Nothing induces nirvana or a nervous breakdown more than registering for baby gear. We actually found it fun and enjoyable, but it’s easy to go overboard. Having a P.O.T. (Parent Of Twins) along can serve as a valuable “been-there-done-that” source in choosing the most efficient and practical items that you’ll really use. (Hint: it’s not the Baby Wipe Warmer.)
Join a parenting group for multiples— the earlier the better.
Multiples of America (formerly known as the National Organization of Mothers of Twins Clubs) offer information, resources, and support. To find a chapter near you, visit http://www.multiplesofamerica.org/.
Embrace that four-letter word: “Help.”
Although determined to manage newborn twins myself, I quickly realized I needed help. Allow your partner or a relative to assist and don’t criticize if he…
